Do you see yourself going through the same routine every year? Are you tired of going through the motions and want a positive, yet permanent change this year? Below are four simple steps I’ve discovered how you can make this year the best year of your life.
Everything in our world is fast paced. We heat up breakfeast with quick heating microwaves, drive to work in fast cars and drive to pick up fast food for lunch. By the time you get home and settle down for the night, it’s already 11:00 p.m. and you’re already tired from the long day. It’s difficult to squeeze in time for yourself, but if you demand one hour out of your day to take a longer shower, get up and hour early to sit and enjoy a cup of coffee or cook a special meal for yourself, you will then value the extra time you cut out of the day that was specifically made for you.
There was a time when I used to loathe reading, but look at me now, writing blogs and reading at least three to five books a year! That’s quite a change from five years ago, sitting in community college bored out of my mind. Now I know that it wasn’t reading I hated, but the type of books I was reading. I used to read fiction, but I learned that I really enjoy reading self-improvement books and books about personal finance and investing. I love the fact that I can learn so much from reading one book and improve my financial gain and not pay but $10 dollars for it. What kind of books do you like to read? Knowledge is power and reading helped me become more confident in myself when handling business and learning how to hold presentations. Pick up a book at the store and read 3 pages a day before bed or in the morning. A positive read can begin or end a great day.
Have you ever asked someone how they have been and all the response you recieved was, ” Oh i’m fine, just busy” Or ” I’m always busy”. I hear these responses so much, I think the words “I’m busy” is just an automated response we use to make up for common conversation. May I advise you to take a different turn this year and evaluate your busy. What exactly are you busy with? Determine this year to be productive instead of busy. Don’t let life carry you out to sea with anxiety and angst, but be the captain of your own ship and sail to where you want to go.
Austin and I are always meeting new people and building new relationships. The main thing that I’ve learned is that people love talking about themselves. When you take an honest interest in the person you are speaking to, they immediatley take interest in you-though at things these can become an endless conversation about themselves. This year, take the conversation with your good friends (or associates) a step closer and talk more about their interests and the things they like to do instead of grumbling about what your co-worker did to you today or who cut in front of you in traffic. No one wants to be around Negative Nelly. A positive approach is always the best approach.
Overall, if you can take the time to value you, appreciate others and start off the day positive, every year can be a great year because you decided that you will start to have great days. But making 2018 to be the best year starts with you. How will you end this year? There is still time to make a change. Be the best you this year and make it the best year of your life!